Monday, May 12, 2008

Hello, My Name Is Kimberley!



If you've know me for long, you know that I sometimes have to explain my first name to people who have never met me before.

I know there is a tele-marketer on the other end of the line when they ask for Kim Pagel and I answer, "Speaking," and then there is a long pause while the caller tries to collect their thoughts.

I try to bank at the same branch so that I don't get ID'd. But occasionally there is a new teller. I walk up to the window, give him or her my deposit slip and checks, and then watch them begin to get nervous. They might then say something like, "Mr. Pagel, you will need to sign these checks also." Or sometimes I try to bail them out by telling them that Kimberley really is my name. And then one of the veteran tellers will holler out, "He's OK. We know him!"

I've long known that Kimberley is an unusual name for a guy. But little did I know how unusual! I recently stumbled upon the Popular Baby Names website that is hosted by the Social Security Administration.

If you go to the site you will learn that for babies born in 2007 Jacob was the most popular boys name and Emily was the most popular girls name. Jacob and Emily are nice names, I like them.

But what really caught my attention is that the site allows you to search popular names by previous birth years. Cool!

So I went to 1951 and looked at popular boys and girls names. Right at the top of the list you see the usual suspects - names like James, Robert, John, Michael and David. I knew a ton a guys with those names growing up.

So I eagerly went down the list. I came to names like Melvin, Cecil, Claude, Oscar, Elmer, Ira, Homer, Rufus, Dewey, Bert, Amos, Murray, Orville, Harley, Norbert, Dudley, Gus, Ollie, Laverne, Carol, Wilmer.

Good grief, where is Kimberley? Finally, I found my name listed proudly at #709! It was just ahead of Burl and Cleo! And for girls, Kimberly was listed at #366. Just ahead of names like Fannie and Violet!

All things considered, it could have been worse. My mom could have named me Edsel! And just in case you're interested, in 1951 Edsel was the 1000th most popular baby name, narrowly beating out Donal!

Whew! I guess Kimberly isn't so bad after all.

Sunday, May 11, 2008

Growing Up



Linn-Mar Prom was yesterday. Josh is home from UNI and went will Allyson Male. Allyson looked lovely and Josh handsome. They paused in-between the rain to pose for pictures. You can click on the photo above to see a slide show of the evening.

Our youngest sons are growing up! Josh and Jon just finished their freshman years at UNI. We're proud of the young men our boys are becoming.

I'll Always Be Your Little Boy!



We had a great time honoring Sharon today on Mother's Day. We enjoyed lunch at Chili's and Sharon reminisced regarding the early years of our marriage along with her thoughts and expectations about being a mother. Fun stuff!

But then the real fun began. Over the years our boys have taken to purchasing humorous cards for special occasions. And today did not disappoint. The picture above is Sharon holding her card from Jon.

In our quest for full disclosure, I will share the contents of the cards with my faithful blog readers - all ten of you!

The Wonderful Mom
See her stand like a glorious flower of kindness in the wide and windswept meadow that we call life. See her also pick up clothes, wash dishes, fill the fridge, tidy the house, drive the kids around, etc. etc. etc. - Ryan and Natalie

Mom
The more I've tried to live life on my own, the more I realize what a Great Mom you've been. (The card has a picture of a pot with burning food and a scorched iron mark on a shirt) - Jason

Everything I need to know about life, I learned from you, Mom! (Open card) ...except how to fart - THAT I learned from Dad! - Josh

Mom, no matter how old I get, I'll always be your little boy. (Open card) ...meaning, of course, that it's still perfectly acceptable for you to do my laundry. (I know it makes you happy.) - Jon

There is nothing Sharon would rather do than spend time with her boys. She's a great mom. We all agree! Happy Mother's Day Sharon!

Perfect



Have you heard about Dale Davis and his perfect game? Probably not. But it's a story worth telling and hearing. You can watch the video and then read the story as told by the DesMoines Register. It's an amazing story about an ordinary man from Alta, Iowa who decided to not let his disability stop him from achieving his dreams.

Dale Davis is 78 years old, weighs 115 pounds and walks in the bowling alley leaning on a cane. He can't believe the folks coming to his small northwest Iowa town of Alta, into the 90-year-old bar where they used to bowl in the basement. Sioux City television reporters are hanging around. ESPN called. And CBS reporters arrived early Friday for today's morning show.They all want to know how he bowled a perfect game, a 300, last Saturday.

"I look straight ahead and I'm totally blind," said Davis, who his fellow bowlers call "the Hammer." "If I turn my head I have a little peripheral vision, a fuzzy ball in my right eye. "Davis started going blind in 1996, the result of macular degeneration, he says, and a lifestyle of sun-blinding, over-the-road trucking, welding, poor diet and smoking.

So here's how it went last Saturday night. It was the last night of the U.S. Bowling Association-sanctioned league. The bowlers were all crowded into the small space with four lanes, built adjacent to the Century Bar in the 1980s when old folks had trouble walking down the winding stairs to the basement to bowl.

Davis was clicking - five, then six strikes in a row. No one was too surprised just yet. He'd been a bowler since he was 11 and set pins down in the basement. He'd crouch behind the pins, picking them up to put in a feeder in the days before automation.Through the years, he bowled in leagues in California after World War II. He had served in the Pacific, lying about his age to enlist at 16, eager to fight.He was helping to build aircraft, then bowling lanes out in California. He bowled for leisure, a father of four boys who found out he wasn't bad, averaging 193 in his prime. One day he bowled a 299.

He can't see the pins at all. But if he turns his head he can see the spot on the approach and place his left foot on it. By muscle memory, he takes a four-step approach, smooth as the pros he watches on TV, sitting to the side of the screen about a foot away.

His sister, Thelma Sherwood, talked him into bowling again one day in 2004. He'd called her when it was too hard to live in California on his own. He moved in with her in Alta. After he got back, Davis went to a Veterans Affairs school for the blind in Illinois, learning how to get around and take care of himself. Now he has his own apartment, although he said he burns his food 50 percent of the time. But that first time bowling again, it felt right. A few good balls and he was hooked. He joined a league in nearby Sioux Rapids, averaging 160. His average steadily climbed the last three years in the Alta leagues to 188 this year.

The fellas pick him up on league nights. They tell him which is his ball and what pins are left after each roll so he can adjust his feet.

They didn't have to tell him anything last Saturday. On frame nine, he noticed a loud cheer after he heard the crack of his 16-pound Storm Agent bowling ball hit the pins. He knows by the crack if it's a strike. By the 10th frame, another dozen from the bar gathered around the back of the lanes and everyone fell silent.

"Lord," he said to himself, "let me have three more good balls." Oddly, he didn't feel nervous. Everything felt right. Backswing. Follow through. "No one has ever bowled a 300 here," said bar owner Clem Ledoux. "One young guy bowled a 298 in February. And quite a few got 11 out of 12, but they missed in the middle frames. So by now everybody stopped and watched.

"The 10th ball was perfect. The crowd erupted. The 11th ball was also true, his ball arching wide right and spinning and curving into the pocket.

By now, Davis' hands were sweating a bit. His boys would like to see this. Two live in California, two in Illinois. Not to mention his late father, who nicknamed him "Hammer" because he'd gently knock on his head with his knuckles and the boy didn't even wince.

Others would like to see it, too. James Benton, president of the American Blind Bowlers Association, said he has never heard that any of his membership had ever rolled a perfect game. Typically the ABBA's members - Davis is not a member - use a handrail to spot themselves and average between 80 and 100.

Davis heard nothing but silence as he prepared his final roll, stepped forward and let fly. "I tugged it just a bit. Tugged it with too much finger," he said. Then he heard a yell. "Brooklyn!" Brooklyn is when a right-hander's ball pulls toward the left pocket of the front pin - and often ends up leaving one standing unless it's solid. "As soon as they said it, the ball hit," Davis said. "I heard everybody yelling and clapping. Everybody started hugging me. Some of those guys can hug pretty hard.

"I never thought I'd do it." Women kissed him. And that night his telephone started to ring in his apartment - and hasn't stopped. He doesn't call back because he doesn't have long-distance service.

But he wants to tell them something. "Perfect only comes once in a lifetime," he said." I'm glad I could do it for bowling. And for handicapped people. Shows them we can."

Monday, May 05, 2008

Touching Them All



You've got to watch this video by ESPN's Tom Rinaldi regarding Western Oregon's Sara Tucholsky. In a day when sports headlines have more to do with the off-field misbehavior of superstars, this story reminds us about what is good and right with athletic competition. That there is something more important than winning and loosing. And that the kind of person we are becoming will last long after our playing days are over.

My favorite line from the video segment: "It's a great moment when someone has character to step up and do the right thing at the right time."

Enjoy the video. Might we all be inspired to do the right thing at the right time!